Working In A Quote Mine

Whether or not you are a Christian, chances are good if you were born and raised in the US, you can quote a handful of Bible verses. Most of you reading this probably know John 3:16 and (for better or worse) Matthew 7:1 by heart. If you sat down and read a Bible for any length, you'd also recognize how many verses in it are part of everyday speech in the US. For instance, to "see the writing on the wall" is a reference to King Belshazzar's experience in Daniel 5. (for more, see this Squidoo page)  "The blind leading the blind" was imager  Jesus used to warn others about following the influence of the Pharisees in Matthew 15:13-14. 

It's a great reward to many people then to not only read the Bible, but recognize and memorize the scriptures within. Because the words have so much life, memorizing them can be inspirational. It also serves to lift others when they need words of encouragement. It can even communicate to non-Christians how practical the Bible's advice is for daily life. And when teaching, knowing scriptures can add an air of competency to your material (and support to your arguments). Indeed, being familiar with what the the Bible says is something to strive for and cherish. 

In fact, this phenomena parallels how Jews in the 1st century approached the scripture. To take different scriptures and apply them to something happening was a source of great honor for a speaker or teacher. It showed respect for tradition and mastery of intellect. It was also something almost every New Testament author did to help others see how God's hand was moving amongst followers of Jesus – just like he had for Israel. So why do I write this? Could there be any reason not to praise the memorization of scripture? Of course - allow me to share a brief personal story that will show why.

Every quarter, my wife and I have 1 month during which we are not teaching Sunday School. During that month, we make an effort to attend other adult classes and see what other people are doing. We of course like to socialize as well, but last month we stopped by to catch up with the adults in our age group, and caught the middle of a study on the book Not A Fan. The scripture reference being discussed was a chapter in which Jesus proceeds to fire off about a dozen accusations of “hypocrites!” to the Pharisees in what is clearly not a moment of affection and endearment. 

During the study, this example was used to help explore one of the major characters in the Not A Fan plot, who similarly seemed to have the air of being religious but little understanding of what things looked like in application. And what was one of his defining characteristics? That's right – true to stereotype, he had a Bible quote for just about everyone and everything. And as we are exposed more to his personality, we realize he was hollow in his ability to act and serve Jesus in a useful way. He was proof of one thing - memorization and quoting of scriptures doesn't always lead to real knowledge and application.

Many of you may know such a person. You may have grown up with one in your family, or been exposed to a few in your congregation. Your Sunday School class likely even has such an individual. For the first few years of my Christian walk, I even wanted to be that person! Their memorization of scripture is amazing and often overwhelming (or encouraging, if you value learning). Their verses were the meat of every Jack Chic tract, or any other attempt to make you aware of your sinfulness. Not only impressive, but successful!

No doubt you also know many of the scriptures they quote by heart, and have heard them more times than you can count - passages like Jeremiah 29:11, Revelation 3:20, Romans 8:28, Phil 4:13, Proverbs 3:5, Ephesians 2:8, and so on. BibleGateway (a popular website for reading and searching the Bible) has even compiled a list of these verses, and it is impressive. Some people, like Jack Van Impe, even have a television ministry because of their ability to memorize and quote scripture for every thing they say. It is a feat that certainly demands recognition; a skill that can be very valuable.

It doesn't take much time of me listening to an individual like Jack Van Impe, however, to realize things are unusual with his use of the Bible. So why do we not get the same impression from that person in our Sunday School class? At first, I imagined it's because there are too few people who know a public figure like Jack Van Impe. They don't have anyone to compare their brother or sister to in order to suspect they suffer the same malady. The smoke and mirrors that often accompany such magic acts go unnoticed. But certainly, it must be more than that. After all, not everyone would spot Van Impe's nonsense right away – right?

So, why do we fail to recognize the dangers of such individuals? Why do we admire their abilities so highly? Is their memorization skill a badge that grants them equal credit in understanding the Bible? Perhaps not, but I think that often becomes the case. The vocal personality of such "quote-miners", as I'll call them (not just because it seems that is what they should be called, but it is also a nickname for the logical fallacy of quoting out-of-context), ensures they receive attention. Lots of it. As a result, individuals in their presence come away with as much insight as the quote-miner shared. In some sense, the quote-miner literally dominates discussions. After all - everything talked about triggers more scripture in their memory, waiting to be shared to the perceived benefit of all. 

Can you put your finger yet on the potential problem with memorization? If not, allow me to share another personal story that should help us take every thought captive here.  

This past Wednesday, during the weekly “Clubs” our Jr. High class meets for, I had my kids investigate the idea of a “7-day” creation as opposed to interpreting the creation week as happening over a long period of time. If you are familiar with the debate, a verse often “quote-mined” to support 7 days as long periods of time is 2 Peter 3:8. Because 1 day is equated to 1,000, many people propose this allows the 7 days of creation to be long periods of time. I presented this example to my students to show them that, in-context, Peter is not inventing a mathematical equation. He has talked about false teachers and false prophets (in those days, the Jews) who enslave people with distorted teachings. As Chapter 3 rolls along, he begins talking about people in 2 Peter 3:3 (probably those same false teachers) who in 2 Peter 3:4 scoff at waiting for a return of Jesus because it seems to take longer than people will wait.

By the time we come to verse 8, Peter has re-assured his readers that God, having created everything out of water and not hesitating to use water to flood the earth, is also storing up a similar judgment against such scoffers. And when we continue on to 2 Peter 3:9-10, we see Peter also reminding his readers of God's patience, and his timing – reassuring them that he is not acting slowly, even if it may appear that way. In summary, 2 Peter 3:8 seems to be give readers a reminder of how God works outside our time scale and is assuredly working on the world's problems. Peter is exhorting his followers to patience – not inventing a mathematical formula.

So what was the difference in both understandings of the verse? One was given based on context and careful evaluation; the other was given without context. And this is the problem with quote-mining, what I know happens with many verses that are recited - the recollection of the text is great, but the application is off. The study methods that accompany the memorization need improvement. Yet in the end, the impressiveness of memorization and recitation overwhelms people (and not surprisingly, since for thousands of years this was a sign of honor), leaving them with a low quality contextualization or interpretation of the Bible.

If case you're thinking "but the New Testament writers quote scripture constantly!", allow me to clarify something. It was one thing for the New Testament writers to quote-mine their work (which they did, liberally). They lived in and were exposed to the same culture that produced Old Testament writings. They knew the contexts and used them properly, or they would not have received recognition for their work (you could not earn a reputation in those days without public acknowledgment). 

What I think happens today is quote-miners achieve reputation without acknowledgement, or perhaps even without challenge. And this is because, just as we discourage heaping too much praise on people we discourage being too critical of them. This is why anyone in the US even knows who Harold Camping is. Rather than publicly shame and ridicule his beliefs (or at least ignore him), people were careful to do little more than vocalize their disagreement with his beliefs.

Another reason why many people miss out on good scriptural context is it takes time to learn and discover, not to mention the effort to teach it. Most church-goers, then, end up as ignorant of the information as the quote-miner. Over time, the quote-mined version of Christianity becomes all people are exposed to and quote-miners become the heroes of Christian teaching. All the while what is lacking, as with the Pharisees, is an ability to use scripture properly. 

Furthering the problem is the fact that the only people in churches not prone to such a shallow knowledge of scriptures are those often not involved in much teaching. They are pastors, overseers, deacons, or seminary students who will go on to counseling or research jobs. And some who do want to teach even meet resistance and conflict along the way (I can think of a specific example at my church, and it's not myself).

Before I wrap up, I want to point out how much I still hope to encourage people to read their Bibles and commit scriptures to memory. Alone, there is nothing wrong in doing such. Part of daily life as a Jew in the 1st century was reciting certain scriptures, multiple times per day. Scriptures that communicated the core message of their belief – their covenant status with God and God's awesome power over all other created things. And this is a good model for us to follow as Christians as well. It helps shape and focus our personality around Christ.

What I am advocating, however, is not to stress memorization of scripture over studying of it. I memorize and recite basic verses that are encouraging when needed (for instance, Galatians 6:9)  But I long ago stopped trying to be a quote-miner. Why? The more I've learned what scripture teaches, the more endeared I've become to Christianity and the more confidence I've had in my beliefs. Knowing what passages mean is more valuable than just knowing what they say.

Thanks for taking every thought captive here with me today! I've been working on a 2-part post about author's intent as it relates to context, so stick around to hear more about related issues!

The Great Divide

One reason I started this blog was to share what I've learned from extensive studies of theology and Christian apologetics over the years. And I've found through much study that an honest analysis reveals Christianity to be as reasonable a belief as it is homiletic (devotional/emotional). Sure, I may never be able to convince some people of this, but that lies in the fact that truth in this world is complicated enough to require lots of study. And since few people are committed to publicizing such an image for Christianity, perceptions on this matter will always be slow to change.

I think this is why religion in general is passed over by many smart people - it is never presented to them in logical or rational ways – ways they can actually understand. But in order for me to present Christianity in such a way, I naturally must respond to the objections brought up by people who reject religious belief. And for this reason, people could easily perceive me on the opposite side of such individuals – constantly fighting them off as enemies of the faith. It would not be unlikely for skeptics and Christians alike to take this view either, since humans naturally tend to simplify conflict in terms of duality - a sort of “good vs. evil” where only one side wins.(Even worse, they interpret the Bible this way)

To me the extremes of this dualist thought are most evident through popular dichotomies of “religion vs. science” and “democrat vs. republican”. I hate how such ideas become divisive in ways beyond what is necessary. There is more to being religious than whether one rejects science, and more to rejecting science than lack of knowledge, concern or understanding. (Recent studies have shown the most stubborn “creationists” are also the ones with the most schooling). There is also more to being a scientist than one's views on evolution or creation. Being a Democrat is about more than taxes and women's rights, and being Republican is not just all religion and big business. Like the issues themselves that divide us, as humans we are more complex than such simplifications allow.

This is why I have always seen problems with the “atheist vs. Christian” portrayal. There is more to skeptics than hatred of religion or inability to understand in it. There is more to Christianity than blind faith and anti-intellectualism. While I'm not afraid to point out problems with skeptical arguments, I actually owe much to skeptics and credit them with developing my insights into religion as much as many Christian resources. In some cases, I have more respect for some atheists than Christians I know, and the even rarer agnostics may be closest to sharing my views!

Does this seem odd to you? Perhaps shocking? If so, it shouldn't be. Only by embracing skepticism could I achieve the confidence in my belief I now have. Only then did I feel empowered enough to engage and evangelize others in a way that is educational rather than condescending. Only by clearly understanding my belief was I convinced enough to communicate it more intelligibly, not only to those who need it but to Christians who need better discipline and teaching.

So how can I embrace skepticism without being it's champion? How can I find anything in common with “enemies of God”? Simple - it is an over-generalization to even see skeptics as enemies to start with. Certainly their disbelief separates them from God and blinds them from knowing the true peace offered by Jesus. And this makes them enemies of God - but so was I before I believed. Skeptics have rarely done anything to offend me personally (except the ones that ignore anything I'm saying and parrot their point to death), and are therefore hard to see as enemies.

The real issues for me lies in what motivates the disbelief. Is it fueled by honest questions or doubts about religious belief? Or is it fueled by a negative perception of religion, formed from bad experiences with individuals close to them? Is the individual simply rebelling against status quo, failing to put effort into understanding religion more than popular perceptions allow? Did the individual leave their rebellion phase behind them, or are they just looking to be contentious? How these questions are answered does much more to shape whether I will see someone as an enemy. People committed to poor logic and personal tirades are therefore my enemies, whether they are Christians or skeptics.

What endears me to skeptics is they almost all can answer that first question (“Do you have honest questions or doubts”) affirmatively. Most did not choose to walk away from God for malicious reasons, although that can motivate them later. What typically begins their exodus is they considered serious questions about religious belief, but were not fortunate enough to be shown concern for such matters by Christians who should have cared. Instead, they were told to “just believe” or “have faith” - as if that were possible for someone who is constantly analyzing every detail of the world around them. In short, many skeptics have just been unable to make sense of popular belief, and without having careful or caring responses in return they cling to disbelief.

You see, I discovered early in my Christian walk that many questions asked of skeptics are natural to anyone who is simply inquisitive. How? Because I discovered the answers to such questions on the Internet only after having asked them myself! Yes, many skeptics fail to make the effort getting legitimate answers, but that is a separate issue and not any less commonplace in Christian circles. The reality is that Christian belief, as parroted from many pulpits and Sunday School rooms, lacks deep thought and scholarly engagement. So when deep thinkers try to engage, they find themselves still underwhelmed, and this is a bigger problem than whether or not the skeptic believes in God.

If I have so much in common with skeptics, as I claim, then why am I a Christian? The answer is simple – while I go through the same processes of questioning information, my approach to finding answers can be fundamentally different or more thorough (depending on the individual). That, and I find myself okay if I can actually be proven wrong by evidence. But to reach that place, my flow for analyzing information involves a series of questions designed to make extra certain I know my topic. A few examples are as follows:

1. Do I like this material because it merely says what I already believe? Or did it truly engage a clear conflict of logic and information? For example, I am careful of this when reading through creationist materials. Sometimes the material contains legitimate questions of the scientific conclusions in current research. Sometimes it contains nothing more than hollow logic that begs questions. Do I accept the whole of the material then because I want to believe it? Is it not more responsible to sort through and believe only what is proven? (In case you're wondering, my beliefs on origins are too complicated to pigeonhole into most theories)
2. What is the source of this information? What expertise does this person have? For instance, when a scientist speaks about religion, what level of exposure have they had? Do they have degrees in either topic? If not, how much of their criticism is worth even considering? Is it really the result of intense theological studying (on top of their scientific research), or is it merely trying to exploit flaws in popular belief without considering other avenues? Going with the creationism example above, I often look to see if am I reading critiques of geological research from an active geologist with a PhD, or if am I reading the words of a self-proclaimed expert and pundit (like Kent Hovind) wanting more attention.
3. Does this information appear to have an agenda? Is the critique I'm reading just trying to disprove Christianity, or is it merely speaking to explain what it knows and laying out flaws that could apply? How much is the author staying within their expertise? Conspiracy theory often fails on this point. Most such sources want only to find ways government looks bad (this is an agenda!), assuming anyone with a secret agenda must certainly have criminal or evil intent and want to abuse power. Not that theories against Christianity are better, but isn't it possible that sometimes governments have good reasons to be secretive?
4. How much does the material speculate, and how much does it deal with fact? This is related to the others in the sense that speculation leads to problems forming solid conclusions. But more specifically, it deals with whether or not a case is even made with facts or opinion. There are millions of internet posts, comments, forums and places to visit where opinion is all you will see. Facts loom in the background like the proverbial straw in the hay. Are these places from which to read, believe and adopt patterns of thought and opinion?

Now, to make this point I generalized from my experiences. There are certainly some skeptics who are not guilty of failing to ask these questions with their research. They know how to check information. What often is true is they are simply unaware of what scholarly materials are available on a subject, or what competing opinions may exist. The theology they are then exposed to continues to remain little more than what is caricatured by the vocal "know-it-alls" that saturate the entertainment industry.

Nonetheless, you can hopefully see how skepticism can be healthy. By definition, after all, it relates more to doubt and asking questions than it does actual disbelief. It is a process which helps one be certain their beliefs are not just personal, but in fact reflect reality. And this itself, dare I say, is actually the lost spiritual art of discernment – something not only encouraged by the Bible, but seen as something seek after more than other spiritual gifts.

So although I'm Christian, perhaps you can see why it is not unusual to find me fact-checking numerous claims against Skepdic. Or how I can follow blogs like Skeptophilia, cheering the author when he speaks within his expertise (he is not strong on theology). This is also why I watch shows like Mythbusters regularly (I have over 3 dozen episodes on my DVR), having been known to even question their approach to experiments. This is why I get kicks out of shows like Mentalist, Bones and House – not because their main characters have a hatred of religion founded in flawed understandings, but because when they operate within their expertise, there is much that can be learned from them (despite the fact that they are impossibly smart by real standards)

Through all this exposure to negative opinions of Christianity, I still remain Christian. Why? Because each of these sources have only taught me how to think better in many ways. I have learned to recognize how knowledge is applied to real-life situations, whether it is scientific or religious (discerning where critics of religion are misguided). I have ultimately learned to develop a fonder appreciation for the idea of certainty applied to belief. I have only been more endeared to the uniqueness of Christian thought as I've come to understand it more, rather than being pushed further away from it, as I suppose many Christians fear would happen if skepticism is more embraced.

So, if you have found yourself believing in this great divide between believers and non-believers, between atheists and Christians – join my in taking every thought captive at this moment. Learn to see our fellow humans for what they can still bring to God's kingdom. Recognize their limits as well - they often attack popular Christianity but like most other Christians, they are rarely aware of its disagreements with scholarly Christianity. So be careful to be contentious. These individuals are still gifted by God, after all. The same God who can and has used his enemies to teach his people lessons. Israel repeatedly learned this way, and God's enemies still received the punishment they deserved in the end. Believing God will do likewise, shouldn't we embrace our enemies while there is time to learn from them? Who knows – in the process they may be able to learn a thing or two from us.

Marriage Myths, Part 9 - Conclusion

I started this series complaining about gay marriage, because frankly most people who cheer over this graphic do so for spite of those who oppose gay marriage. They find objections to gay marriage shallow, and are unafraid to stand for their position as an attempt to shame others in line with this now dominant position in America. And why shouldn't they? This will likely be a huge issue in this country for years to come until both sides can truly understand each other more clearly.


But other than briefly evaluating the gay marriage issue from a Biblical standpoint (I am not concerned for socio-political aspects), however, this series clearly was about so much more than that single topic. It was about the role and purpose of marriage. It was about cultural standards and social values. It was about taking a closer look at whether our values and priorities put us in a position of superiority from which to judge the ancient world.


The reason I allowed this series to stray into so many areas was that those who rave about this graphic are, in one way or another, implying it serves as an argument against accepting any Biblical standards for marriage. The entire reputation of the Bible's moral standards weighed in the balance! This is also why I looked so closely at each of the items the graphic depicted. I wanted to dissect what was being objected to. Was the information accurately portrayed? Did it show a clear understanding of historical and social context? Was the Bible being evaluated with objective hermeneutical principles?


In each case, I found the answer to one or more of these questions in the negative. As you hopefully saw as you followed me, this required more than simply saying "the Bible says x". Instead, I had to also ask "What does x mean?"  I had to put myself into the mind of a distant past time, a foreign culture and an unfamiliar language. I had to evaluate some seemingly uncomfortable circumstances and try to make sense of them. I had t o dig deep into various websites and books, and give all sides of an issue the benefit of doubt.

Needless to say, the work done for this was far more than I guarantee was done by any of the graphic's authors, or those who parrot it and reproduce it on social media. This in and of itself should serve as a lesson on the level of diligence Christians need to show in Bible study, but that may be a topic for another time.


So, how can I summarize this series in a way you can take something home for future use? First, one error consistent for each case evaluated was simply that our opponents appeared to see no distinction between ancient culture and modern. Either ancient people were held to modern standards, or treated as if they were nothing else than a modern day stereotype! This seems as if it would be something more obvious to people, but it truly is a cancer that plagues today's popular theology as much as it does the ideas of skeptics and critics. In short, the warning here is to be careful in your approach to comparisons when practicing theology. Without knowing it, you could be using the same kind of logic as critics of Christianity! Patriarchy is not something to insult as an oppressive and dark part of past history, but something to be merely understood in it's own context for it's own value and merit.


We also saw throughout this series how important it was to realize that marriage, much like "love", was historically unrelated to the mushy romantic ideals of the present. This was true not only for the world of the Bible, but for literally all pre-industrial societies. It could not be stressed enough how important this is for the church to understand today. People continue to ponder the poor state of marriage in America, holding it up as an ideal but  communicating little of its true substance. Can we ever expect things to get better if marriage is still believed to be something all rosy that makes us happier? We easily blame laws, politics or an influx of radical ideas for shaping our concepts. But such things are filling a vacuum created in the first place by our neglect to understand, study and teach that which we hold dear. As the popular Christian book by Gary Thomas asks - "What if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy?"


I hope this series also served to show you how important word studies can sometimes be. We saw more than once how words could take on different meanings by their context, and words shift in their meaning rapidly over time (this, btw, is why their continue to be so many Bible translations). One size simply does not fit all - even when it comes to Bible translations. Why is this? Quite simply, not all Bible scholars are translators, and vice versa. There is a tremendous amount of scholarly research put into the Bible by people who have no time to contribute to translation issues. Similarly, most translators could never possibly be aware of everything scholarship has to say about the issues they face.


Finally, and perhaps my most important point to make is that ancient forms of marriage ultimately served a purpose - for the good of society. If anyone is to hold up their own standards, or criticize those of the Bible, they need to show how such standards serve (or fail to) everyone's benefit. In other words, proponents of gay marriage need prove it will benefit everyone some way. But this can't be done. Instead, the issue has been more about the personal "rights" (for the benefit of self), or benefits married couples receive (which are not "rights"). Because this is still what we champion in our free, democratic society. But should we rush to change common law in this way? Are we even thinking about what kind of equality we want people to have?


Now that this series is over, I have dozens of simpler and shorter topics I will be commenting on in the months to come. Work has been busy and that's why this is coming so late, but this means you should get much more of my brain in much less time for a while. My busy schedule also means I've had to put off other writing (my book), but everything must come in it's proper time, I suppose. Thanks for following me, and helping take every thought captive on what Biblical marriage is!

Marriage Myths, Part 8 - How Many Wives?

Today’s post looks at a most curious form of marriage to many - polygyny. Though the graphic appears to misspell polygamy (the word most people associate with the practice), it may be somewhat accurate in that it was trying to spell polygyny. What is the difference? Polygyny is specificially the practice of keeping multiple wives. Polygamy does not specify a certain sex of the partner, and is a term that can be used of a wife with multiple husbands.

It is no doubt that polygyny is present in the Bible. The question we are investigating today is “Why?”  Did it serve a practical purpose? If we remind ourselves, as I’ve pointed out in this series, that marriage was not personal in the ancient world and sex was not a mystical act for mutual pleasure, then polygyny seems far less boring and less objectionable.  But why was it practiced to begin with?  To answer this, we need to look at 2 things. Can any insights we’ve discovered about ancient marriage so far help us? And who practiced polygyny, anyway?

We’ll answer the 2^nd question first, as it will make our answer to the 1^st question clearer. To do this, let’s take a brief look at the names actually mentioned in the graphic, and see just who they were.

●      Lamech (Genesis 4:19-24) –descendant of Cain. Father of Jabal, Jubal and Tubal-Cain, themselves fathers and representatives of the major trades and skills in ancient civilizations (farmers, musicians and blacksmiths).

●      Esau (Genesis 26:34–35) – founder of the nation of Edom, a neighbor to and source of trouble for Israel for centuries. Note that Isaac and Rebekah were not pleased with his marriages.

●      Jacob (Genesis 29:14-30) – father of 12 sons, patron and progenitor of the entire tribe of Israel. Anyone who has actually read the story knows he did not WANT 2 wives. He was promised 1 and tricked into marrying another because it was customary. So he continued working to earn the wife he originally desired. Is that a bad example of love, even by modern romantic standards?

●      Ashhur (1 Chronicles 4:5) –descendant of Hur, father of Tekoa.

●      Gideon (Judges 6-8) – noteworthy and brilliant military leader. He destroyed pagan places of worship in Israel and rescued them from the Midianites – establishing 40 years of peace (Judges 8:28).

●      Elkanah (1 Samuel 1:1-2) – father of Samuel (an important prophet). Before Samuel’s birth, the text mentions Hannah had not given him any children.  Keep in mind how important we’ve noted childbearing was throughout this series - a second wife would not be unthinkable (though we are not told this is the reason for the arrangement).

●      David – 2^nd king of Israel and king of greatest reputation in Jewish history.

●      Solomon – 3^rd king of Israel, wisest man in history and also highly reputable in Jewish history.

●      Rehoboam – 4^th king of Israel and son of Solomon. Eventually became 1^st king of Judah when the kingdom split.

●      Abijah (2 Chronicles 13) – 2^nd king of Judah. He warred with Jeroboam and gained many wives as he “grew in strength”.

●      Jehoram (2 Chronicles 21:16-17)– king of Judah. Mostly notable for the bowel disease he was infected with after forsaking God and embarrassing Judah with his attempt to conquer Edom.

●      Joash (2 Chronicles 24:3) 8^th king of Judah. Collected large sums of money to help rebuild the temple, though later led Israel into idol worship. Note the wives were chosen for him by the high priest, Jehoiada.

●      Ahab (1 Kings 16:29-34) – king of Israel during the time of Elijah. I am not aware of him having more than one wife. He is notable for the one wife he did have - Jezebel, the daughter of the Ethbaal (king of Tyre). Jezebel converted Ahab to Baal worship and slaughtered countless prophets of Israel. Even if he had wanted more wives, this was not a woman who would have likely shared them.

●      Jehoiachin (2 Kings 24:15) – king of Judah when Israel was taken into captivity by Babylon.

●      Belshazzar (Daniel 5:2) –king of Babylon, the largest kingdom of the day. Also the last king before the nation was conquered by the Medes.

On closer look, do you see what most of these individuals have in common? They are not ordinary characters. These are people of high honor and status – rare individuals of extreme importance. At least 8 of the 15 mentioned in the list are kings! Of those who were not kings, we have descendants of important people, and some of the patriarchs who founded entire nations in the Middle East.  These were far from everyday people. This means the practice of polygyny was clearly not common, or for common people.

In the case of Lamech, we have an even more interesting reason to understand his possession of multiple wives. A close look at the story shows it serves the purpose of explaining the source of stereotypes related to skills and trades practiced most common in the ancient world. The names of each of his wives translate to “dawn” and “shadow”, respectively. So “dawn” gives birth to herdsmen and musicians (skills practiced by day). Similarly, “shadow” gives birth to blacksmiths, whose sister was Naamah (pleasure) – things practiced by night. [1] In short, Lamech’s two wives are not objects of desire, but explanations for why this duality exists.

So, now that you’ve seen what types of individuals practiced polygyny, that still leaves one question left – why was it practiced? What purpose could it have served? As we mentioned early in the series, marriage was the fusing of 2 families and their reputations, not just joining 2 individuals. A marriage in those days, then, could serve multiple purposes.

One of the more positive outcomes of marriage is that it would smooth over any instability in the relationships between the families. And just who are the types of individuals most likely to have many unstable and tricky social relationships? No less than political leaders – kings and people of high reputation. That’s why these are mostly the people you see in the list above (and in the Bible, and in all of ancient culture). Whether kings or patriarchs, their reputation was important to maintain. And one sure way to do that with potential rivals is to form an alliance through securing marriage.

To see how practical or important this actually would be, you have to realize how unstable politics could be in those days (if it’s not clear enough from reading 1 and 2 Kings and 1 and 2 Chronicles). Pilch and Malina note in their Handbook of Biblical Social Values that within the Roman Empire alone, 31 of the 79 emporers were murdered (assassinated).  [2] They go on to note of the remaining 48 that 6 committed suicide and 4 were forced out of power. [3] That leaves about half of the emperors able to reign without serious threat to their power. Looking at the history of the U.S’s now 44 presidents (with Barack Obam), one will find 3 presidential assassinations and 3 attempts at impeachments. This makes up not even 14% of our leaders, leaving the remaining 86% serving without serious threat to power.

When it comes down to it, polygyny did make sense in culture of the ancient world, but was still fairly rare. We have no need for it in our day, since we have more stable politics. And what troubles we do have are much easier to smooth over through diplomacy. It is absurd for us to assume something was wrong with this standard, though, simply because it seems odd to us. Despite the best efforts of Christians who have struggled to explain polygyny, we don’t have to assume God was working through sinful people. We don’t even need to assume that such things were sinful to start with. We just have to recognize them for what they are – political gains that helped to keep peace during chaotic and unstable times. And isn’t that something we all would hope our leaders would strive for?

 [1] "Lamech." Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia. Web. 2 Mar. 2012. <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lamech>.

[2] Pilch, John J., and Bruce J. Malina. Handbook of Biblical Social Values. Peabody, MA: Hendrickson, 1998. 7. Print.

[3] ibid

Marriage Myths, Part 7 - Prisoner or Pity?

 

In the ancient world, life was difficult on a daily basis. The struggle to survive from day-to-day could be harsh. To have “daily bread” would be a serious request for many people when crops were scarce. And much as it does with people today, especially in poor areas, this kind of daily conflict and struggle strains sanity and relationships with others. So to find conflict in the ancient world was not unusual. And with a person's honor (reputation) being a major concern, it was not unusual for such conflict to escalate in fighting or feuding.

On a larger scale, this means conflict amongst neighboring nations could easily turn into war. This is part of why war was so prevalent in the ancient world. Attempts may have often been made to prevent such skirmishes, but if the honor of a nation was put at stake, it could only be defended by battle by cultural standards of the day. In the case of Israel, we see this in the Pentateuch as God looks to lead His people, Israel, into the Promised Land, Canaan. His Honor was defended as the inhabitants, who had lived in ways clearly contradicting God's high standards, were driven out time and again to allow Israel to settle.

Of course, with every battle only one side wins and one side loses. With every loss is the shameful aftermath of defeat, the attempts to return to life as normal. With every victory, there are spoils to be collected, idols and temples to be destroyed, animals to take care of and resources to steward. But with only men serving as the fighting force, one also needed to be concerned with what would be done to the women and children that were innocent bystanders. How do they move on? How do they support themselves? These were real concerns and consequences of war.

With this in mind, today's topic is an attempt to consider a related issue we see in the Bible, which our graphic appears to depict. That is, that by God's command, virgins remaining after a skirmish were to be taken captive by Israel and given in marriage. Of course, to many in our sensitive Western world, this sounds unfathomable. Forcing virgins to marry people is one thing, but their aggressors? What could God be thinking? As you struggle with this notion, prepare to 'take every thought captive' while I delve deeper into the Biblical text.

The graphic specifically mentions 2 passages in which this practice is supposedly commanded - Numbers 31:1-18 and Deuteronomy 21:11-14. It objects that first, Moses commanded virgins to be taken as spoils of war. Secondly, it objects that sexual submission was supposedly required of the new virgins. So what are we to make of these charges?

By now, it should be no surprise when I say this second objection is bogus, and indeed curious. Nowhere in the associated texts is sexual submission mentioned or commanded. We have seen this objection raised time and again in the graphic, and in every case we've examined there is no hint of this in the Bible, or anything I know of ancient marriage. It remains unclear, then, why it is such a repeated objection. Clearly the graphic author has no concerns for accuracy in his claims! 

This leaves us with examining the 2 Biblical passages to see if we can get a clearer picture of what's going on. First, in Numbers 31 we see God commanding Moses to get revenge against the Midianites (to fully understand why involves a careful and detailed study of Balaam). Moses then instructs the people in how to organize their army (Num 31:1-5), and the Israelites march to war (Num 31:6). Taking victory easily, they kill a handful of Midianite kings in the process (Num 31:7-8). They also exact revenge against Balaam, who had seduced Israel into prostitution and a state of being ritually unclean. 

With victory achieved, the Israelites proceed to handling the spoils (Num 31:9-11). Grabbing up Midiniates and rushing their flocks to safety, they proceed to raze the town and bring their spoils to Moses (Num 31:2). On investigation, Moses becomes furious to discover the women were left to live (Num 31:14-16). God had intended everyone to be killed. The Midianite women, after all, had done something unthinkably cruel and deadly (as Glen Miller shows in his web article[1]) in attempt to destroy Israel. With these women still alive, any children born would haunt the Israelites and threaten their existence. Justice could certainly not be served if such evil goes unpunished!

In response, Moses commands the Israelites to “finish the deed”, so to speak (Num 31:16). He only asks them to spare any woman who had “not known a man” (Num 31:18, KJV). And at this point, our story ends. Later verses detail how the spoils of war were distributed amongst Israel, based on the laws God had given Moses. But notice that we only see Israel being asked to spare these girls. At no point is marriage mentioned. That leads me to wonders why this scenario (whether or not our skeptic finds it objectionable) is even represented in the graphic.

In his detailed analysis of the event, Glen Miller notes something about the girls which might show why marriage is not mentioned. Picking up on cultural and contextual clues (translation: not stated outright in the story), Miller notes in all likelihood, the girls were not even of age to be married, or for that matter to even do any work! [2] Not only does this point to them likely being pre-pubescent, but it means they would have to be cared for, fed and trained for adult life in the years to come. [3] Far from what our graphic appears to depict, then, the reality is not only far less offensive, but clearly more complicated than the face value of the text suggests. Taking these women would have been both a blessing and burden, but marriage is not even in view.

Next on the radar is Deuteronomy 21:11-14, for which we may have a closer match to what the graphic's author envisions. As part of the laws given to Israel, Moses mentions that when God grants them victory and allows them to take prisoners, they may also take a woman as wife, if so desired. A period of mourning for her family is first required, but after that sex and marriage are allowed. So what are we to think of this?

First, consider that the husbands here would likely be dead from the battle. This leaves our women as widows, and without repeating much of what has been said already in this series, that was not a wonderful situation to be in. A woman in this position would easily seek death or prostitution if left alone. Offering marriage, then, is an honorable act - it allows the woman a chance to be supported, cared for and to find honor through a new male partner. We should think God is being very graceful to the women involved here!

As is often pointed out regarding other difficult Bible texts, this treatment is clearly a major step up from the law mandated by other cultures of the day. It was not uncommon for many of Israel's neighbors to allow murder, rape and abuse towards prisoners of war – without discrimination. [4] By allowing the captive instead to be taken into an Israelite family, she is given a chance to be reformed (to God's standards) and supported. Of course, modern skeptics are likely to object to this - it is, in essence, an example of legislating morality. But I dare you tell that to the woman who, by reasonable standards of the day, would have expected no less than rape or death.

In the end, then, only 1 of the 2 situations here represents marriage to POWs. Both situations do represent care and concern for the well-being of the female victims, and when considered in full cultural context, the situation where marriage is allowed (note it is not forced) does not seem as horrible as one's imagination may make it. In fact, it makes more sense to have married the women than leave them alone. Alone, they may be wiped out by the harsh conditions of ancient life - left to struggle to provide shelter and food for their children, with no working men available. Rather than being barbaric, then, this is an extreme act of kindness. God shows us through this how much he cares for life, and for people who are helpless. Rather than see these as ancient and outdated mores, perhaps we could learn much from this in our own day and age!

With this issue now having been put under closer scrutiny, this series is almost ready to be closed. All that remains is to take a look at polygamy. I hope by now you have realized things are never what they seem when skeptics are involved in the distortion attempts. Perhaps your mind anticipates what arguments will be used for polygamy. Perhaps you are waiting for this series to be finished. Maybe you are even pondering if polygamy is right for you. Whatever the case, stay tuned, and always be prepared!

Below is the TektonTV video on this subject.

[1] http://www.christianthinktank.com/midian.html

[2] ibid

[3] ibid

[4] Webb, William J. Corporal Punishment in the Bible: A Redemptive-movement Hermeneutic for Troubling Texts. Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic, 2011. 61-62. Print.

Marriage Myths, Part 6 - Slave Love

To this day, use of the word 'slavery' immediately evokes controversy and intense, raw negative emotion. The thought of practices related to chattel slavery of the 19th century questions the very notions we hold dear about man's ability to treat others peacefully. The events of the recent past in America have, no doubt, forever changed the way modern people perceive slavery. It is for this reason that the appearance or mention of slaves in the Bible will always be a “hot-button” issue for skeptics.

For instance, recently in Harrisburg (of which I live within 30 miles) an atheist group sponsored a billboard attacking the state legislature's declaration of 2012 as the “Year of the Bible”. [1] On the billboard was included an image of a slave, and a select quote from the Bible referencing a command given to slaves. The intention was clear – to evoke strong, negative emotion against considering the Bible as a standard for making law. After all, it has been used to make laws such as slavery legal. Within a day, of course, the billboard was vandalized and replaced, stirring up an overwhelmingly negative reaction in the nearby black community.

To all individuals, then, this is clearly an important topic to deal with it. With most people's understanding of slavery, to just consider the Bible discusses the practice is difficult to deal with. It is not uncommon for it to be forgiven as something that was merely practiced and accepted in ancient culture. In this sense, God is seen as merely overlooking the issue to handle it at an appropriate time. Still, others defend the Bible itself by mentioning the high standards set on the practice, and language in the New Testament that states freedom and equal treatment for all, master and slave (Gal 3:28, Col 3:11). All sides of the issue, unfortunately, only hit on parts of the problem. Like many other things discussed in this series so far, few people ever really perceive the reality of the situation. [2]

With complexities involved in discussing the Bible's use of slavery, then, it is little surprise it shows up in our skeptical author's graphic. This post, of course, will focus less on the issue of slavery itself (that would require a separate discussion). Instead, this is a series on marriage and we will look closer at the challenges our graphic appears to present. What should we make of God requiring slaves to be married? It is as objectionable as our skeptic would likely agree? Get ready to 'take every thought captive' with me as we delve into this issue!

The first graphic above portrays a typical married couple, with one person added to their side – a female slave. The only appeal made that supposedly proves this to be a Biblical form of marriage is to the text of Genesis 16. For those of you who don't know, this is the story of Sarah and Hagar, her servant (KJV handmaid, Strong's 8198). In it, Sarah has been unable to have children for more than 10 years. Frustrated and hopeless, she does the only thing she can imagine to ensure Abraham will have a descandant. She presents Hagar to Abraham as a bride, so he can then father children to be legitimate descendants. It is a lame attempt for Abraham and Sarah to have a hand in trying to move along God's promise to Abraham of fathering a nation.

As has been the case other times we've looked at ancient marriage, what this really ends up being is nothing but an example of surrogate motherhood. Children were the primary purpose for marriage and this would help ensure men would be able to have descendants. Intercourse was taboo unless done within a marriage (for purposes of proving inheritance, etc.)  So marriage to a woman whose birthing system is working is the legal, honorable way to proceed in this case.

What is unclear is exactly what the objection is here. The graphic mentions that a man could take his wife's property, but this is not really what is portrayed here. The property is offered by the wife, and for good reason. Is it somehow perceived that forcing a slave to marry someone interferes with their personal desires to choose a mate? That too would be misplaced, since all marriages were arranged in those days. To take a moral high ground against that is to impose modern standards on ancient people (to judge them by your own standards).

The reality of the situation is twofold. First, for Hagar to be a servant is not to imply the same thing as saying she was a chattel slave (as was practiced in the 1800's). There is no indication in the text here that she receives any poor treatment. A servant, or “slave” in those days was merely a hired hand – much like I am for the company that fills my paychecks. Similar to employment, this was also an agreement entered into by the servant. It was not forced upon someone, but would actually be requested by them!

Secondly, consider that Hagar was offered full marriage. This implies that Abraham would be required to treat her no differently than Sarah. She would have all the same privileges and would receive equal respect in the household. This would, in a sense, be a huge promotion from being a servant. It is extremely difficult to find anything negative in this as an example for modern times. Not only was Hagar not a slave in the sense we think of, she was placed in a very generous position (perhaps more than she was comfortable with, as the story plays out in Gen 16:4).

Moving along, the 2^nd graphic presents a scenario from Exodus 21:4. Amongst some guidelines being given to the Israelites during their desert wanderings, God tells Moses that if a servant is given a wife by his master, the wife and her children belong to the master when the servant is freed. One wonders why our graphic's creator has a larger problem with the first half of this stipulation, as opposed to the latter half. But the point is moot - all marriages in the ancient world were arranged – whether slave or not.

In some sense, that the master would choose to give a wife to his servant (“slave”) indicates tremendous generosity. A servant that would be granted the privilege of marriage (likely to someone in the master's family) is a sign that the servant has earned major respect with the master. He has proven trustworthy in his stewardship, and a close bond has formed between master and servant.

The passage further stipulates that if the servant desired to keep the marriage, he could enter a lifetime of service with the patron. This would only be fathomable if the relationship between the two was extremely beneficial to both parties. This further shows the arrangement in view is not a barbaric or oppressive one, as one might picture when they hear the word “slave”. As we have seen time over in this series, this form of marriage instead is a tremendous honor for all parties involved.

Finally, as we have seen before, the graphic's author seems to enjoy the copy/paste feature of his editor. Once again he has put in an objection regarding “sexual submission”, but it appears to have no basis in the Biblical narrative. This should not be surprising - there is no evidence in the Bible that sexual submission was a requirement of marriage. Sex may not have primarily served  mutual enjoyment, and in a sense it was an expectation for the evening whether a wife desired it or not. But this is not "submission"; it is hardly even different than what is seen in many modern marriages. Were it even a valid argument, would it really be something to cringe at?

In the end, no matter how offensive the word of slavery is to many sensitive Westerners, the appearance of servants and slaves in the Bible is not only justifiable, but uniquely different from what modern people oppose. High standards were set in those days on how people were treated, and clearly marriage in either of these cases was not anything degrading or abusive. It was more a legal formality of sorts, and I don't see skeptics protesting people who follow the law.


For more on the topic of slavery itself (which may become a blog topic in the future), see http://www.christianthinktank.com/qnoslave.html

Below are the TektonTV videos on this subject

[1] WGAL.com. "Atheist Billboard Offends Some African-Americans." Msnbc.com. Msnbc Digital Network, 08 Mar. 2012. Web. 12 Mar. 2012. <http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/46649444/ns/local_news-lancaster_pa/t/atheist-billboard-offends-some-african-americans/>.

[2] In the English language, the use of the word slavery itself changed after the practice of the 1800's. What was historically called slavery, and what was practiced by ancient people, was very different from chattel slavery of the 1800's. In fact, for this reason, historians often refer to the ancient practice as 'indentured servitude' – a fancy word that implies something closer to modern employment than to the propagation of abuse towards a cheap labor force.

Marriage Myths, Part 5 - Helpless Victim?

So far, through this series you’ve seen that many ancient stipulations for marriage, despite appearing offensive to modern Americans, were quite honorable and understandable in full context. But as we continue this series, will this continue to hold true? Prepare to ‘take every thought captive’ as we investigate the next form of marriage our graphic depicts.

In the text of Deuteronomy Chapter 22, verses 28-29, we read the following:

Suppose a man comes across a virgin who is not engaged and overpowers and rapes her and they are discovered. The man who has raped her must pay her father fifty shekels of silver and she must become his wife because he has violated her; he may never divorce her as long as he lives. (NET)

According to these verses, it seems the Bible is asking a rapist “caught in the act” to pay her father a bride price and take the victim as his wife – permanently. Such an act is hard to comprehend for anyone who thinks of the abuse suffered by rape victims. To think they might live with and serve the man who committed such an act is outrageous. Traumatic and terrible acts like rape are frequently punishable by most standards of law! Why does the man seem to get off easy and the woman get it tough? Doesn't God care about victims of rape? This just seems to confirm the negative stereotypes for patriarchal societies and oppression of women.

As you should know by now, however, there is more here than meets the eye. First, one thing is clear about this passage. The woman is a victim. Note that the woman here is not engaged (“betrothed”). This means she can safely be assumed to be a virgin (sex outside of marriage was rare). Anyone who would have sex with her, then, would drastically reduce her ability to be married (cared for and supported). This brings tremendous shame on her family (something to be avoided at all costs)  The woman herself, unmarried and now with little hope of being married or having children, would join her family as being outcasts.

For the man to have to marry this woman is punishment also, however. Why? Am I completely crazy? First, consider this - he is not allowed to divorce her for any reason. This means he will have to do what it takes to make the woman happy (the woman gains an edge here). He is also now responsible to provide for her – food, clothing, money, etc. - indefinitely. And he also carries the embarrassment of marrying a woman he wronged. He will have to live with this and must work to improve his reputation with her. This may not seem like a big deal at first, but consider how important reputation was to ancient people – it was to be prized and maintained at all costs. It was the highest good, the most valuable thing possible.

And speaking of costs, the 50 shekel penalty, elsewhere in the Bible, is tribute paid by the rich (2 Kings 15:20). Dr. Thompson notes that it was likely the equivalent of 5 years pay for the average man [1] - no small sum to cough up. Clearly, a man in this position would not feel he was getting off easy! Both people will love with and endure hardship as a result of the action. But when you look closer at what the man is asked to do by marrying the victim, he is being made to take responsibility for his action. He is being forced to man up – to provide for the woman and family he harmed. Is that something we really want to discourage these days?

Of course, the marriage itself would not necessarily be forced. As discussed in previous posts, ancient law (torah) was not handled as literally as we think of in our justice system. A penalty stated was the maximum allowed, and families always had the option of accepting or enforcing lower penalties. Glen Miller goes into more detail on this here, especially at applies to our passage. While not stated directly in this passage, it is a more viable solution than it appears as first. Consider that in Exodus 22:16-17 - the original law, as given (Deuteronomy is sometimes considered Mose's summary), an identical situation is being described. But what is different? The father has the option of refusing the marriage. The only certainty is that the dowry will be paid!

Even with all this considered, many would say it still seems awkward to consider God would ask someone to marry a rapist. What about the emotional trauma and other psychological considerations? Because of this, I want to look at another aspect of understanding this text. Is the act being performed really rape?

It may sound like a dodge tactic to some, but consider this. The act the man performs is translated as “rape” in some popular Bible translations, but this is not consistent practice with most translations. First, look at the following renderings of verse 28 in 2 popular translations (aside from the NET, quoted above):

• NIV: If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered
• HCSB: If a man encounters a young woman, a virgin who is not engaged, takes hold of her and rapes her, and they are discovered

Now, look at how the verse is rendered in some of these other major translations (which do not specify the word rape).

• ESV: If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found
• CEV: Suppose a woman isn't engaged to be married, and a man talks her into sleeping with him. If they are caught
• NASB: If a man finds a girl who is a virgin, who is not engaged, and seizes her and lies with her and they are discovered
• KJV: If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found

Although rape is not specified by the translators, it has generally been assumed by commentators over the years that rape is implied. This tradition dates back to the Middle Ages[2][3], and apparently is adhered to by many in the Middle East.[4] This tradition is no doubt responsible for why some translations do read rape here. In addition, it seems that, in surrounding context, verse 28 follows stipulations for a situation sounding much like forcecd rape (Deut 22:23-27).

But is this a fair assessment? Are both passages talking about the same thing? We need to take a closer look to find out. We'd expect more translations to read rape, if that is what is implied. So to answer our question, let's compare the verses in question.

First, look at the punishments involved. In verses 23-25, stoning is ordered for any guilty individuals involved. But in our passage, marriage is forced on the individuals. If both passages are dealing with rape, why handle the situation differently? Perhaps this is because the preceding verses (Deut 22:23-27) deal with a woman who is already engaged (betrothed) to a man – already committed to marriage. But verse 28 deals with a woman who is not engaged. A woman not engaged is waiting to be married but now would be unlikely to do so; an engaged woman has already been “purchased” and has no business being touched.

The fact that these 2 situations are contrasted may imply, then, that both are dealing with different circumstances for the same issue. But the question remains – is rape really in view in both cases, as has been assumed by many commentators? After all, translators have hesitated to put the words rape in the mouth of the author here. Is God still asking a woman to marry a man who's raped her, regardless of her "marriageability"?

In order to get a better handle on this, let's see what we get if we compare the text of the verses. In verse 25, the action being performed by the man (often translated as forces her and lies with her, seizes and rapes her) is translated from 2 Hebrew words: chazaq shakab. In verse 28, however, the action being performed is translated from the words taphas shakab. Notice how the phrases are clearly different, but the translation tactics are similar. Is this warranted?

The word shakab, found in both phrases, is what is translated as “lie with her” or “sleep with her”. This is consistent in both passages and in numerous examples throughout the Bible. There is little debate over this word – it is a known euphemism for a sexual act. So both passages are clearly discussing something sexual. This is little surprise, too, as many other situations discussed in Chapter 22 also reference sexual acts.

But what about the word taphas (Strong's 8610), as opposed to chazaq (Strong's 2388)? If both situations might refer to rape (a forced or unwilling sexual act), why are these 2 different words used? What do they mean? Let's look at how each word is used in the Bible.

Strong's relates the basic, literal definition of chazaq as meaning “to be strong, to grow strong” [5] In practice, it conveys a few other meanings aside from this. It is the word translated as courageous, and is the word used throughout Exodus 7-14 to indicate God's hardening of Pharoah's heart. It is also used a few times of people when they grab their clothes to rip them (a sign of grief), and is used when people grab the horns of the altar in the temple. Perhaps more relevant to the issue at hand, it is a word used in Judges 19:25, when a concubine is forcefully taken by strangers and abused overnight. A few verses later in Judges 19:29, the Levite grabs the concubine to cut her up.

Clearly, when chazaq is used, some kind of force or strength is being exerted over the object in question. This would easily lead one to believe the sexual act in verses 23-27 is forceful, and may be why the passage is considered to be discussing rape. But what of the word taphas, in verse 28? How is it used, and can it carry the same meaning?

The basic definition of taphas is reported as “to catch, handle, lay hold, take hold of, seize, wield” [6] In Genesis 4:1, Jubal is the father of all who handle the harp, and Ezekiel 27:29 mentions people who handle oars. Likewise, Amos 2:15 talks of those who handle bows and Jeremiah 50:16 talks about handling a sickle. In Genesis 39:12 Potiphar's wife is said to grab Joseph to get his attention, and in 1 Kings 11:30 Abijah grabs his robe and rips it. In 1 Kings 18:40 Elijah takes the prophets of Baal captive, and in numerous places (2 Kings 16:19, Isaiah 36:1, Jeremiah 40:10, and more) a city is taken captive . In Proverbs 30:9, the writer is concerned about taking God's name in vein and repeated references in Ezekiel have God saying he will catch someone in his snare or people being taken in a pit.

A quick glance then reveals taphas does have some overlapping use with chazaq: both can be used of someone taking hold of an object. But with the word taphas, we see fewer examples of force being used and more examples of skill or talent (oars, farming, swords and bows). We also have more instances where surprise or deception is in view. For instance, Potiphar's wife tries to seduce Joseph, prophets are taken captive, and others are caught by a trap or a pit.

In the end, you can see each word appears to carry with it different implications. It seems shakab definitely deals with a forced act, where taphas implies some kind of deception or skill. This would seem to justify comparison to Exodus 22:16-17, which speaks of a dowry being required for someone who entices (not rapes) a betrothed virgin. But this is perhaps why many have been careful to translate either act as rape. 

With this in view, the action ins verse 28 could more likely be a seduction or “one-night-stand” scenario. And if that is so, the man is being forced to pay for his mistake and take responsibility for his deceit. I hope you would agree that this is nothing but honorable. In addition, God is not asking a rape victim to live with her rapist. He is instead giving the woman the upper hand in a situation where she was taken advantage of!

Rev. Ralph Smith takes a closer look at the issue from a “woman's rights” perspective.




Below is the TektonTV video on this subject.








[1] "WOMEN AND THE LAW IN ANCIENT ISRAEL." WOMEN IN THE ANCIENT WORLD. James C. Thompson, B.A., M.Ed., July 2010. Web. 29 Feb. 2012. <http://www.womenintheancientworld.com/index.htm>.
[2] "Sunday Study: Does the Bible Teach That a Rape Victim Has to Marry Her Rapist? | MandM." MandM. Web. 10 Mar. 2012. <http://www.mandm.org.nz/2009/07/sunday-study-does-the-bible-teach-that-a-rape-victim-has-to-marry-her-rapist.html>.
[3] Matt and Madeleine also make a strong case that the word rape, in the Middle Ages, carried with it a much broader connotation than our modern word. In essence, they argue that the word rape, in previous centuries, referred to any kind of unwanted sexual act – not necessarily a forced one.
[4] In fact, the issue recently came up in world news. This may beg the question - if Middle Eastern tradition understands this as rape, wouldn't that lend authenticity to this interpretation, as their tradition predates the Middle Ages? Perhaps, if that specific statement can be proven. The author of Answering Christianity, who defends orthodox Islam (the religion of 99% of Moroccans), defends the verse as rape - how? Not by appealing to traditions, but by saying "lay hold on her" must mean a forced act. To not see this as rape, he believes, means the Bible condones sex before marriage. (though it's clearly not condoning it)
Note there is no word study or interaction with context or language. If this is the thinking that formed their tradition, it is just as likely that similar thinking influenced the Middle Ages. This would be a universal problem for anyone in recent history - reading something into a text. This has no bearing on what the words actually mean, especially in their original languages. Only rabbinic tradition might help lend weight to accurate historical understanding BCE, but I cannot locate Jewish commentaries on the passages.

[5] http://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm?strongs=H2388 
[6] http://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm?strongs=H8610